Cody + Danica + Cole+ Brett

After Christmas pictures and New Years

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Rang in the New Year in Thatcher

Brett, Spencer, Melinda

Danae, Lamar

Cole feeding Brett his bottle

Picture Time...

I love these two so much

Cole takes such good care of Brett

One of the thousands of kisses Brett gets from Cole everyday

Handsome boy

attention span is shortening...

Chubby Chub

His new "no-man" from Grandma Rapier. He LOVES it.

OUr Christmas tree right before I took it down. It looks kinda Charlie Brown now from Cole taking off ornaments all the time. There will be more ornaments next year.

tummy time trick...turn the train on and Brett will stay there forever

First time rolling over 1-4-12

Cole had a nice wedgie with his diaper. So funny!

December and Brett is 4 months old!

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Brett turned 4 months old on Dec 29. Wow how time flies. He watches everything Cole does which could turn out to be very interesting. He will pick up bad habits before he can even say mama! He is very happy and giggly and sleeps ten to twelve hours a night, sometimes more! He rolled over yesterday, which was January 4, 2012 and we just looked at him in shock! He has been such a blessing in our family and Cole absolutely loves him...except when he's poopy...then we just hear Cole say, "Brett stinky" over and over until we change him. It grosses us all out! We love our little boys and the laughter they bring into our home!

Brett's Blessing Weekend

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Melinda and Cody

Ryan Rapier, Danae Echols, Clinton Claridge

Abby Rapier, Lamar Echols

Granddad and Grandma, Scott and Emily Carnes

Pa and Nana

Brooklyne Nikolaus, Taralee Porter

Rustin Reidhead

Brycen Echols, Lizzy Echols, Logan Rapier, Cole, Kate Rapier

Shannon Rapier, Danae Echols, Melinda Lamoreaux

Shannon Rapier holding Brett

Clinton holding Brett

Nana and Pa with Brett

Grandma and Granddad holding Brett

Seriously where is time going? Don't get me wrong. I am glad it is fall/winter time but where did spring and summer go? And where is my first newborn?...he is TWO. And my where is my second newborn?...he's two months. The harder I try to grasp time the more it slips away. We have definitely been busy around our house. We redecorated the master bedroom and painted the front room. That may not seem like a big deal but with two little kids, it can be. Thankfully, Cole can entertain himself and Brett is just chill all the time. Blessing for sure! We had a lot of family come to town for Brett's baby blessing and it was a perfect day! We appreciate all those that came and love you all. He is a sweet boy and a true blessing from heaven!

October 2011

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Dr. Claridge

Super Cole

Super Family. Yes Cody and I have capes.

yay for footy pajamas

Trick or Treat haul

Neva Dorothy Gaines

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This past weekend we celebrated the life of my Nanny. She lived a long, wonderful life and always was making someone laugh. She was an amazing woman and I am happy that her and my Granddaddy are reunited. Thank you Nanny for being such a great example to all of us!

Wrapping up September

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Cole's 2nd Birthday

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His new tricycle. Loves it!

Checkin it over

Hey everyone look at me?"

"Pa, Cool Dude!"

He knew we were singing for him!

Loves frosting like me!

Happy Birthday Cole! We love you so much!

CHEESE!

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so i take a lot of pictures of my boys...but i'm glad because they grow too fast

September- trip to Show Low

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All the grands minus Bodee. Teagan, Cole, Brett, Harper, Brody, Dot

More of the Boys

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He has Arrived...

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Sunday, August 29, 2011 at 5:11 am our little Brett Reid entered this world as a healthy, strong and precious gift to our family. Labor and delivery went well. I had contractions all day at home and after being sent home once for no progress, we were back again at 7:00 pm with consistent hard and strong contractions. I was already dialated to a five when we got to the hospital so I was NEEDING the epidural. My IV hurt the worst and I wanted to punch that stupid nurse in the face. In fact, I think Cody AND the other nurse also wanted to punch her. She had me in complete tears because she kept digging with the needle into a nerve and not a vein. I started pushing at 4:40 am and at 5:11 am he had made his safe arrival. They placed Brett on my lap and I was in love. I just kept saying how perfect he was and how he looked just like Cole. He weighed 7 lbs 12 oz and was 21 1/2 inches long. He is such a sweet little boy. Totally perfect. Cole absolutely adores him and it hasn't even phased him that he doesn't have my full attention. Maybe he was just ignored before?....hahaha NO!

the last Saturday with just Cole

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Pretty sure he got motion sick but Cody loved it. Who knew the next day I'd be in labor...

August...before Brett

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July 2011

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Fourth of July

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Beginning of July 2011

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We started off July in Show Low. We got to see Ryan and Kacee's twin baby girls and they are adorable. Pretty sure Ryan is holding Harper and Kacee is holding Teagan. Cole loved Roxie's kennel and we would find his shoes and bear in there like it was his own little fort. We love spending time with family.

The rest of June 2011

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June flew by. My mom, tara and her kids came down for a few days and we stayed in a hotel together and enjoyed swimming and splash pads for a few days. Six people in one hotel room equals smelly! Every time we walked into our room we were hit with a wave of....our scent. hahaha. My parents came down another weekend and helped us with some more projects around the house and brought us their old Indian couches...but yes we bought slip covers almost immediately. Then I went up to Show Low and "hung out" for a week. I say "hung out" because I more or less worked my butt off painting my parents basement along with other projects and chasing a toddler. Cole loved being in Show Low and getting to play with Roxie and be outside pretty much all day. He especially loved the four wheeler.

June 2011

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We just celebrated our 4th year wedding anniversary! Hard to believe all that we've accomplished in four years but whats even more amazing is how much we've learned about life and each other. During job interviews in the past, the employer would ask, "Where do you want to be in five years?" I would reply married with kids but it is kind of an out of body experience looking back and realizing those words came out of my mouth and that it happened. We love our life together as the Claridge Family and are excited for this new addition that is going to happen before we're even near ready. Cole already gives the baby hugs and it just melts our hearts. Maybe all kids are as sweet as he is but he is exactly what Cody and I need to keep us in line.

Cole loves the splash pad at San Tan Mall. Even when his teeth are chattering, he still plays. He is talking more and more. No real sentences yet but he sure is working on it. Word World is his favorite and he brings me the DVD like 1000 times a day and says "watch?" How can I resist? This morning Lady Gaga came on and he would not stop dancing and bobbing his head. He will throw a tantrum but not for very long...thankfully. He's just an all around good kid. What will this next one be like.......

May 2011

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Happy, Fun Loving Boy

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This little boy is one of the cutest boys alive! He is the sweetest little guy and is truly concerned about everyone especially if he sees tears. He's learning to love nursery and is quite the helper around here. Just yesterday he got himself down from the table and took his plate to the sink, while I was in the other room. He has a laugh that'll melt your heart and a cry that'll make you want to join him. His vocabulary is really growing and points to my belly and says baby baby over and over (in a non justin beiber sort of way). He has a love for shoes, sunglasses, keys and especially cookies and he knows where I hide them! When he sees that I'm doing laundry he'll pick up the pile and take it to the laundry room for me. I could go on and on. He is so smart and so loving. I love his big kisses and hugs! Pretty sure he is going to be an excellent big brother!

April 2011

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Finishing Up March 2011

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Trust my gut?

2011-04-07T23:05:00.000-07:00

My rather large gut let me down...we are having a BOY! I could not believe it. Cody smiled ear to ear and practically pounded his chest in a, "I'm the man" type of way. I thought for sure it was a girl. I won't lie, I cried as soon as we left the office and a couple times since. I guess my little heart was set on a girl BUT we'll just have to do this pregnancy thing again.........ONE DAY. (and when I convince Cody) But there it is y'all, A BOY.

Boy or Girl

2011-04-04T21:14:00.000-07:00

I am 19 weeks. I feel the baby move a little more each day. We find out on Thursday if its a boy or girl. What is everyone's vote?

A Year Ago....

2011-03-17T23:48:00.001-07:00

Wow how things change. This picture of Cody and I was taken when on our trip to Vegas. We had had a long couped up winter with a whirl wind of health problems and left Cole with my mom and dad. Maybe this is when my "heavy girl hunch" started? hahaha. And then look at Cole. I NEVER thought he was a chubby baby but HOLY CHUB! I love it! I love that sweet boy and that he still lets me snuggle him and kiss him all over.

March 2011...so far...

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February 2011

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January 2011

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he loves the mixer! he gets so excited when i make something because he knows he gets to eat the dough! these cookies were probably made with the intention of being taken to someone but i doubt they even made it to a plate. we love cookies around here!

My Brothers

2011-03-08T22:24:00.000-08:00

I am just sitting by myself tonight and for some reason my brothers, Ryan and Rustin, entered my mind. What amazing people they both are. If you know them, you know they are night and day in almost every way except they are both so kind and generous. They are special people to me and I would do anything for them. I have learned so much from both of them and I pray for them and the hard things they face. It amazes me how our Heavenly Father knows who will fit perfectly together as a family and what we can all learn from each other. What awesome men! Thank you for always being there for me! I love you both!

A Wonderful Life

2011-03-07T21:56:00.001-08:00

Things lately haven't been the easiest but they certainly haven't been the hardest either. I have moments where I feel extremely close to the spirit (could be mistaken for hormones) but either way I am thankful for the life I have. This pregnancy has been no piece of cake. I know a lot of people who have it a lot worse off than me, but for me, its been hard. I think the second trimester is kicking in though so that feels great. I've actually gone 5 days without puking and that is a record! I don't know what it is about carrying a child and having one already here but I am reminded daily of the blessings of motherhood and eternal family. I can't really explain how I feel at this moment of what my heart feels. The closest word that comes to describing it is JOY but it is even more than that. I'll admit that my mind gets off track of my role as a wife and mother and just as a daughter of God but I try during those moments to remember the sweet things that take place in my life every day.

Cody is an amazing husband and father. He works everyday whether he's sick or tired, he still goes. He cooks dinner the majority of the time. And still tells me I'm pretty even on those bad days.

Cole has a way to remind us of how we are supposed to be living. That little boy is a package sent straight from heaven. He doesn't talk much, but he sure understands everything...which does not mean he always does what he is told. He loves to be chased around the house, thrown on the couch, tickled, take baths, play ding dong with people's belly buttons, pick his toys up, suck on his bear, climb, throw anything, bury himself in pillows, clap when he does something good, snuggle, wipe tears, loves dogs, read, sing, eating whatever fits into his mouth (even nasty nasty nasty stuff), and always folds his arms when we sit down for dinner. He is the sweetest thing.

I don't know this new baby yet. In fact, I don't know whether its a boy or girl (gut says girl) but I do know that he or she will be loved by many and that Cody and I will do our best with the new addition. Every once in a while I feel it kicking...more like a nudge...but what a wonderful feeling. It makes my heart so happy knowing our family is growing but scared to death in the same breath.

I can't help but wonder how my recovery will go. I probably think about it TOO much but I do not want to be so depressed that I can't enjoy my life and my children. I will forever be grateful that Cole will never know he was taken away from me when he was three months old because I wasn't normal. I think thats why I'm so scared this time. Cole will almost be two when the baby is born and he'll know if I'm gone. The bond between mother and son is so strong. I hope I'm able to stay strong (and stable) and that things will go much smoother. I have faith that everything will work out but that does not mean everything will be worked out on my time frame. ha.

I have a wonderful life, even when its hard.

ugh

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will post partum depression always have a firm grip on me? And is it even still considered post partum depression when you're "baby" is 17 months old or is it just plain ole depression? answers please.

Upcoming Visit

2011-01-31T22:07:00.000-08:00

I'm not a good blogger anymore. Facebook is just easier...especially to load pictures. But anyways, this weekend my mom and maybe my dad are coming to visit. I have no clue what we'll do. Probably take all morning to get ready, eat sticky biscuits, laugh at stupid things, make fun of my dad (whether he's here or not :)) take Cole to the park, and maybe some shopping. The point is, they're coming down to visit and see their favorite (baby) daughter oh and Cole and Cody of course. (Let's be honest, they are having Cole withdrawls) But WAHOO we'll have company!

"Shaving Dream"

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i just think this guy is brilliant! I could never do that. too chlosterphobic.

Funeral Part II

2011-01-13T14:36:00.000-08:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6eHruOzITjQ
This is the video of Gary and Jenalee talking at Granddaddy's funeral.

....and apparently you can't hear it at all. Sorry I tried. I'll try to type up what they said.

Christmas 2010

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A good thrift store find. New bed side tables for cheap. We painted and put new knobs on them.
Maybe I should start brushing his teeth?

He loved climbing in and out of this big pot and my parents. He was so proud of himself for figuring it out on his own.

Perfect fit.

New Christmas shirt

He sat like this all on his own. Little show off.

Christmas Eve pajama opening

Loves his new jammies

Santa brought him the nicest rocking horse. He loves it.

Top of the Mornin' to ya Tara. Lookin good.

New Year's Eve....notice the party snappers flying. Awful picture...recovering from the flu.

Best family picture ever...eeeeeeek.

Uncle Rusty and Cole

Cole with the tree before I took it down.

He was so thrilled that he was finally allowed to touch the ornaments without getting in trouble. That was the best gift to him.

Texas Trip Pictures

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Kailee, Gene, Sharon
Gary, Jenalee, Nicole

Mom and Nanny

Kailee, me, Jenalee, Nicole

Mom and Sharon

Ryan, Nicole, Chad

That's the most brotherly love I saw all weekend between Jared and Chad

A lot of the whole fam-damily

Howland Family

Gaines Family

Nicole and Gary

Reidhead Family

Original Gaines Family

Jenalee and me

Glen, Chad, Ryan, Jude, Jared, Gene, Dad, Gary

Dad, Gene and Gary...pretty sure they were all sleep deprived

The Pallbearers

Goof balls...Glen and Chad's faces are the best

Granddaddy's Funeral

2011-01-12T14:03:00.000-08:00

Last Wednesday, my Granddaddy left this Earth. His health has not been good for the past couple years and it quickly took a turn for the worst. My parents left as soon as they could but within an hour the word was out that he had passed. It wasn't easy news to hear even though he is in a better place and is no longer in pain.

It worked out that I was able to hitch a ride with my brother Ryan for the 12 hour drive to Odessa, TX. It just seemed like another visit to Texas until the viewing the next day. It was nice to see how peaceful he looked and to feel the spirit comfort me and my family. Even during such a sad time, the family still has an awesome time laughing and laughing. I've never laughed and cried so much in such a short time frame. What a blessing Granddaddy was to so many people. I wish my kids could've known how funny he was and what an amazing person he was.

Temple Lights

2010-12-10T14:41:00.001-08:00

What a wonderful time of year! I can't help but get choked up as I think about the way I felt when we looked at the temple lights. I loved seeing the marvel consume Cole as he walked around pointing at everything. It is such a blessing to have such a sweet boy who I know came from Heaven and was sent to Cody and I. We didn't get the chance to go to the lights last year because...well...last Christmas was just a huge struggle for us and my mental health. I wish I could explain the happiness I feel about still being on this Earth and getting to spend everyday with Cole. Last year I wanted to take my own life and also hurt those that I love most. I know faith, prayers and lots of love from our Heavenly Father kept me alive and got me through such a dark time in my life. I hope everyone has felt of the wonderful Christmas Spirit in their lives and will give an extra tight hug to those they love most! Merry Christmas!

Christmas Tree

2010-12-07T22:24:00.000-08:00

The tree has been up since WAY before Thanksgiving and I finally got pictures of it. I love it. It makes me so happy. Oh and those cookies....absolutely amazing if I do say so myself.

He Loves Hats

2010-12-02T11:19:00.001-08:00

Cole discovered Cody's hat collection and loves to put them on and walk around.

Thanksgiving 2010

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Sorry for the Cole overload but I just couldn't decide on a couple pictures. He's just too cute. We woke up to snow on Thanksgiving morning and it was freezing!!!!! Taralee made the kids the cutest shirts and I sat back and watched. haha. Mom went all out on the food. It was all so delicious. I ate all day and I'm not ashamed. Cole loved his Thanksgiving feast. I helped put up the remaining Christmas decorations and the annual dusting of my mom's high shelves. hahaha. Cody and I went black friday shopping and got some good deals and also some things we didn't need :) I am so thankful for my family and all the help and love they give me. What wonderful people to stick by me when I was going through such a hard time this past year. I am truly grateful for all that I am blessed with.

A Trip to Show Low

2010-12-02T09:50:00.001-08:00

While my parents were in New York, we took a trip up there to put up my mom's GINORMOUS Christmas tree. It was late and cold when we got there. We're valley people now, we didn't pack warm enough!!! We got Cole in bed and went and found the ladder that is usually on the side of the house. I finally found it down in the chicken coop. Nice storage place I guess? We got a space cleared out in the garage so we could put the ladder up. Cody climbed in the attic and we got the tree down...light as a feather (sarcasm). We close up the attic and take the ladder back out of the garage. We get the tree in the house and get it set up but I remember it being about 3 feet taller. hmm...thats odd. Cody refused to get up in the attic and get the bottom part of the tree until he realized that I was not going to give up on asking him. We go outside and start the process all over again. We found the last 3 feet of the tree and take it inside and finally get it put up. Thoughts of, "I would've much rather decorated a 6 foot tree than a 9 foot tree." or "Why the hell am I doing this again?" or may or may not have crossed my mind. Well about 1 in the morning I was pretty much done so I went to bed. The next day I wasn't satisfied with what it looked like so I went and bought about 75 more ornaments and hung those. I was done decorating.

Mom...next year I won't be so nice.

More Smiles

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Fall Family Pictures

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Halloween 2010

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We aren't sure what Cody was but Cole was the cutest lion ever and I was a construction worker...but I looked like a freakin lesbian. Embarassing.

Mom went as a basketball player with extremely white legs and dad went as a man with a bum knee...not much pretending there.

Cole and my 24th Birthday

2010-10-29T14:55:00.000-07:00

50 bucks and 50 reasons Cody loves me

so happy for my birthday

cruising at the park

Ready for church
he is our cheese ball for sure

Pumpkin Patch

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The cutest farmer around!

First of October

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Cheesy smile!

Wore out from getting his blood drawn for his year exam. I remember when the crib looked so big compared to him.

Cole was obsessed with making kissy lips and loved his wagon ride
We made Christmas ornaments for my mom's tree. We're getting into the Christmas spirit awfully early.

pressing his face against the shower door

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Cole's 1st birthday with the Reidhead Family

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I used to HATE shower doors...now I love them
Nana and Cole

Making Cole's birthday cupcakes

Trying to figure out Uncle Ryan and the hair on his chin

Couldn't quite figure out what was on his head"Ah HA a flickering light. I'm gonna touch it."

"This whole thing is mine? Are you sure Nana?"

All in one bite

Show no mercy kid!

opening presents

His new Lightning McQueen car. Wasn't sure about it at first but now he LOVES it. Taught him how to walk real quick.

Figured out the dog kennel

Up Next:

Cole's birthday in Thatcher with the Claridge clan...as soon as Shannon emails me the pictures because we forgot the camera

He has a new trick

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he is a little champ.

A little update

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loves his wagon

"FREEZE MR."

soothing himself after falling off the bed

love those eyes, lashes, lips...everything

On our way to church

crawls around with the bucket on his head...he puts it there himself. He loves to hear his echo.

wishing so badly he could play with the mop and broom

Watchin dada play Modern Warfare...finding comfort in his bear

Road trip to Texas

giving sweet loves

I've Been Needing This...Motherhood: An Eternal Partnership with God

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Thanks Jeffrey R. Holland for this.

Lately....

2010-08-27T23:43:00.001-07:00

A couple weeks ago I threw my back out when I was trying to keep Cole out of the kitchen while I was mopping. A bottle of vicodin, some muscle relaxers and a week later I was fine. Then today happened. It all started when Cody came home from work so clearly everything is his fault (it just has to be).

Cody "lightly" tossed my cell phone to me and hit me right in the elbow. It hurt so bad. I pretended he broke it. ...he didn't fall for it.

We decided to go swimming. The pool and the spa only have a wall separating them that you can climb over and switch pools. (That doesn't make much sense.) I decided to get in the hot tub so I sat on the wall which was very slippery and I was going to stradle the wall and go in one leg at a time but I totally slipped and went in backwards with my legs straight up in the air. Hilarious. I came up laughing so hard!!!

Cody decided he wanted to be funny and dodge spooning me so he would roll over from side to side while we were on the bed. Well I crawled over him so I could be the inside spoon and he rolled again. Somehow I pushed off of him or lost my balance or something bizarre because I flew off the bed, hit my head on the side table, hit my leg on my craft table and landed straight on my tail bone. I am in pain. I wanted to laugh but just saying "ou ou ou" over and over was all that came out. Now I can't even sit up straight. Not looking forward to tomorrow if I'm already this sore.

Feel free to laugh. I have. I have gone so long without getting hurt and then all of a sudden its boom boom boom.

11 Months

2010-08-25T21:22:00.000-07:00

Can you believe it? I sure can't!! My baby is 11 months old today. I've loved (almost) every minute of staying home with my little man. Today when Cody left after his lunch hour, Cole followed him to the door and when Cody shut the door Cole immediately started crying and waving bye. He was heart broken that Cody didn't see him wave. He is such a sweet little boy. He got his bazillionth hair cut today.

Follows me everywhere.

Especially follows me when he sees that I'm filling up his sippy cup.

Loves the vacuum.

Loves swimming.

Loves yogurt and ice cream.

Throws a fit when we put shoes on him.

Climbs onto the couch.

Stands alone for a few short seconds.

Plays peek a boo any chance he gets.

He's perfect but still gets mistaken for a girl because he's so beautiful.

...He's a heart throb.

9 month Check up

2010-08-18T00:20:00.001-07:00

So I'm about 2 months late but Cole turned 9 months old. He weighed in at 21.7 lbs, 30 inches tall and 42 cm (I think) for his head. He's in the 90% for all and is the cutest and funnest boy alive.

Another Trip to Show Low

2010-08-17T23:53:00.001-07:00

Yes Captain Adorable is absolutely correct. Don't you just want to hug, squeeze, and kiss that boy? I can't get enough of him.

Cole and what not

2010-08-17T23:42:00.000-07:00

Favorite sleeping position

Two cute boys

Loves the hammock at Nana and Gampa's

Fourth of July Weekend

2010-08-17T23:27:00.001-07:00

We went to Show Low and cooled off over Fourth of July weekend and enjoyed being with family. Cole especially loved putting every rock, leaf, twig, stick and bug in his mouth. But he was a happy camper!

Moved

2010-08-17T23:14:00.000-07:00

We moved from Glendale to Mesa the end on July 1st. Just a couple of words will sum it up. Hot. Hell. Sweat. Horse trailer packed to the top.

Our Little Shopper

2010-06-25T19:14:00.000-07:00

Needless to say he enjoyed it.

Is there any resemblance to our children?

2010-06-24T17:29:00.000-07:00

It just amazes me. The only difference between Tara and Brody is he has a few more bumps and bruises on his head. But other than that...twinners all around!

a happy boy

2010-06-10T20:07:00.000-07:00

He finally laughs now and goes for a while. It is so precious.

Two more teeth pushed through and he never made a fuss about them.

he's definitely the happiest baby I've ever come across.

He gets mad at me if I don't greet him when I come home.

He is the biggest joy ever.

Cole and Goose

2010-06-04T09:15:00.000-07:00

We went to Show Low for Memorial Day Weekend and had a nice relaxing trip. We didn't do much of anything but I prefer it that way. Cole wasn't quite sure about the goose...and either was I. I didn't like it to get too close. It was a pesky little creature. Cole wouldn't put his toes in the grass so he was stuck there until someone moved him. He is the cutest little guy I know.

Our Lives Have Changed

2010-06-03T14:47:00.000-07:00

Allow me to show you...

The belly on all of his shirts are getting worn out quickly.

He follows me from room to room yes including the shower.

He figured out finger foods today and is finally getting them in his mouth at quite a rapid pace.

Still gets mistaken for a girl. I told a lady today when she asked, "what is it?" "A pretty boy." haha. She gave me a snooty look.

That is all for now...up next Cole and the goose.

2010-05-28T11:19:00.000-07:00

Been having "one" (actually several weeks now) of those moments where you just miss your new born and everything about them. Its not that I don't enjoy everything about him now but I do wish he'd let me rock him again and just let me sing. Now its almost like he cringes when I sing and arches his back, kicks his legs and swings his arm when I try to rock him. Little toot.

Now he's 8 months old and growing too fast. Oh how I would deliver him all over again to have that first mother moment all over again. Yes he has made being a mother pretty spectacular but its still hard not to miss my teeny tiny baby. I love this little boy so much. More than anyone else.

Now he fights me when I comb his faux hawk so it doesn't get combed.

Army crawls and that just started this week.

Pulls my hair till his little hand gets slapped. Its only cute for so long.

Has a book that makes noises when you turn the pages so he lays on the floor with the book and just opens and closes it really fast. Gets old but its funny.

Gets himself trapped in any crook and cranny in our house.

Hits his head on everything possible.

Won't lay still for a diaper change.

Loves to bounce still.

Trying to figure out how to put little things in his mouth still.

Eats like a champ...as you can tell when you try to pick him up.

Gets food under his double chin.

Gets excited over his bottle.

His naked buns are ticklish.

Has an Elmer Fud laugh not a giggle at all.

Has 2 more teeth making a grand total of 4 with 2 more trying to come through. Never hardly made a fuss over it either. (I like to brag about it)

Says da da da da like crazy but has only said mama once.

Loves stroller rides too bad it got too hot.
He watches everyone's EVERY move especially if I'm trying to feed him vegetables!

Oh how I just love to kiss and squeeze on him. Who wouldn't?

Just Cole...who else?

2010-05-20T10:11:00.000-07:00

Happy 26th Birthday Dear Heart...a day late

2010-05-17T21:54:00.000-07:00

Happy Happy Birthday to you Cody! Cole and I love you so so so much and are thankful for everything you do for us! You're a wonderful person.

Takes His Breath Away

2010-05-17T12:58:00.000-07:00

The fan took his breath away. I thought I got more but I guess not. It was so funny!

Cole's Growl...or something kinda like it

2010-05-11T21:23:00.000-07:00

Sweet little Cole and his weird growl. He makes it all during church and it is so loud. Great!

A New Camera...

2010-04-11T22:05:00.000-07:00

Just Jumpin'
Easter Eggs make the best toy

Splish Splash

Side Sleeper

Big enough to hold his own bottle

Love those cheeks

Hi mama

Loves his bath time

Suckin the water off his toes

droolin on the eggs

" da da da da da"

"feed me!!!

"thank you"

fat and happy

Matchey dad and son playing play station

Parker, AZ

2010-03-26T12:30:00.000-07:00

Yes I'm knelt down in the water of the Colorado River. It was freezing. When I got out my legs were bright red and numb.

Oh me Oh my. What to say. Monday my parents picked me up and we were off to go camping in the big city of Parker, AZ. Never heard of it? Let me tell you why. Its on the Colorado River where the shore line is covered in RVs. It is Sun City on wheels. The fastest machine out there was a golf cart which conveniently there is a golf course....called Jackass Flats. Hmm. And funny thing...there were actual golfers out there tearing it up. But what else could they do? Maybe go play water volleyball with their fellow senior citizens or play putt putt golf. Either way I'm sure it would've been the time of their life. On the other hand, me, mom and dad were about bored stiff. I've never been more grateful for FOX news or any channel for that matter.

Our highlights included me wondering why in the HELL there was mice poison in our camper and as I was sitting on the bed my dad goes, "Danica lift your feet up real slow." YEAH RIGHT! I bout came unglued.

Dad going swimming and his shorts filled up with air and he couldn't get his feet to touch the bottom of the pool and he was fighting to keep his head afloat. Mom and I about died laughing.

Mom couldn't quite figure out that she had to walk up the stairs instead of fall of up them. Something about the one foot in front of the other was a little much I guess.

Dad singing in the truck, "There ain't no sunshine hmm mhh hmm hmmm...." After about 20 minutes of this I texted mom and wrote, "there ain't no sunshine...sure glad the radio works." She chuckled and dad knew we were making fun of him. It was classic.

All in all it was a fun trip. I doubt we'll ever go to Parker, AZ or Herp, CA EVER again but it was fun. Next year they'll have their passports ready to go to Rocky Point. Can't ever beat the beach thats for sure.

Oh one more story about mom. We had just finished playing putt putt and all we were wearing was swim suits so just use your imagination where she put her phone. Well then we decided to go sit in the hot tub when she sat down she remembered her phone but it was too late. The damage was done. I texted dad and told him and he said, "oh mercy. Try explaining that one to the insurance." hahahhaha.

Cole is 6 months old

2010-03-26T11:17:00.000-07:00

Our little man is growing like a weed. He is so sweet.

Weighs 18.10 lbs

Head 17"

Height 28"

Yes he's a big boy. He wears 9-12 month clothes already. I can't believe it. The doc said he's ready to go from 40 oz of milk to 32 oz and given 3 to 4 meals. I'm excited for it...just not the mess that comes with it. haha. OCD talking I guess.

He reaches for anything he wants and usually can grab it.

Last nite in the tub he was trying to pick up all his toys. He'd catch one and the other would float away. It ended in him being completely frustrated and I've never heard him cry like that. He loves the sound of thinks crinkling...like bags of any kind.

He still doesn't have a definite eye color. I just say they are coal.

Rubs his eyes and ear when he's tired.

Lately he's been waking up at like 5:30 but I let him play in his crib until he decides he's hungry. Why not right?

Sits up so good.

Everyday he learns a little more. It's amazing.

Trip to Sin City (but we're righteous)

2010-03-26T10:38:00.000-07:00

Bellagio Water Show
Caesars Palace

The New Veer Towers

Vegas Temple

That's us

Its a beautiful temple for sure

Aquarium at The Mirage

The Strip at night

Paris all lit up

New York, New York

Excalibur

Sadly we never went that fast by the dam. Dam.

Cody and I have been spending a lot of time apart lately due to work and school so we decided to take a little trip to Vegas and my parents would watch Cole. Perfect. Don't want to corrupt him too early ya know? We left here on Sunday and got there like at 5 because there was a two hour wait on the Hoover Dam. Really? My only thought..."da(r)n tourists." Ideal traveling. We stayed at the Excalibur and went to a show called "Tournament of Kings". It was pretty entertaining. We walked the strip several times and bout did ourselves in. One day we went to the temple and enjoyed just being away from the hussle and bustle of all the noise and action on the strip. What a peaceful place to resort to. We drove to Show Low on Wednesday to pick up Cole then came home Thursday morning.

I Have a Problem

2010-03-26T08:26:00.001-07:00

Now no one really needs to be alarmed but I truly have a drooling problem! I can't even count the number of times I've drooled on myself. Its like I'm a teething baby but worse!!!! Any solutions out there?

A Quilt I Made

2010-03-21T21:29:00.000-07:00

I was up in Show Low and made a quilt for my mother in law. She of course, bought the material and supplies so I just put my little mind to it and got it done. I had a lot of help quilting it and it turned out so cute. Unfortunately I didn't get a picture of the finished quilt but it was stitched with yarn...not tied...and the stitches were like 1/2 inch long. It was adorable.

Cutest Boy Ever...

2010-03-21T21:09:00.000-07:00

...ok maybe a little biased but look at him!

Thank you to my friend Jessica for taking pictures of Cole. I just wish my email wasn't retarded and I could get the other one.

All About Cole

2010-03-12T21:08:00.000-08:00

I am 100% in love with this little boy. He brings so much joy to me. I could kiss him all day and he would probably let me...well he's actually out growing it. NO!!!!
5 months and 3 days old he decided to finally roll from back to belly. He was so proud of himself.
Grabs onto everything.
Giggles when tickled or when we eat his feet.
Wears 9 month clothes...some are even 12 months.
Weighs somewhere around 18 pounds.
29 inches tall.
Full of love.
Two FULL diapers a day if ya know what I mean
The best baby I could've ever got!!!!
Tries so hard to scoot.
Reaches for people he wants to play with.

A Little of This and a Little of That

2010-03-12T19:32:00.000-08:00

Me and Jenalee. Big ole Cheeses!
The famous mumus

My favorite picture of Cole

Such cute boys

Glen Canyon Dam

Grandpa's Buddy

Lake Powell

Really mom?

Much better.

Total sweetness

Big boy

Helping me make the bed

Going hiking in the rain...nothing comes to mind

Cole watching golf

Kissing Cousins

2010-03-08T21:15:00.001-08:00

So I haven't posted in FOREVER. I apologize. I'm in Show Low and forgot my camera and cord so maybe one day I'll catch up. For now I only have a picture my sister in law emailed me of Cole and Kate. Kissing Cousins. So adorable.

A New Friend and Rice Cereal

2010-02-11T19:50:00.000-08:00

Cole and his new girlfriend Zoe. Cute as a button.
About to eat rice cereal

"I don't think this is really what you and dad eat. This tastes nothing like that ice cream I had earlier."

"How do I suck on this thing?"

Big boy wearing dad's hat

"I never miss a bath...now if only mom and dad would practice their hygiene we'd be a good smellin family."

...oh and I forgot to mention...Cole has his first tooth at 4 1/2 months! I can't believe it either!!

His 4 month check up:

Height: 26 3/4" 96%

Weight: 13 lbs 12 oz 25%
Head: 41.3 cm 24%

I swear he's doubled since then!

The Latest and Greatest of Cole

2010-02-04T21:11:00.000-08:00

We've been letting him cry himself to sleep at nap time and bed time. Its been so nice to have him sleeping so much and we don't have to rock him all the time. He cries for a little bit but then sings himself right to sleep. It is so cute. He doesn't take a pacifier unless he's in his car seat in the store and he can't fall asleep otherwise he just talks himself into dream land. He loves to be cuddled and I miss it but I love having time on my hands to chill a bit. Call me selfish if ya want...I call it excellent parenting! :D Cody had to fill the bath tub three times tonight because Cole kept peeing. haha. He laughs now and it is so exciting. Today he was laughing at me when I was laughing at the TV and then I tickled him and he laughed so hard it took his breath away and he didn't know what to do. I love it!

"Oh good. Here's that stupid camera again."

Cody's cousin's baby, Jaycee. She was born Sep 14

They love their hands

Notice he is wearing the "Captain Adorable" shirt. It didn't quite fit me. hahaha

"We all live in a Yellow Submarine...Yellow Submarine...Yellow Submarine" (Thank you Dillards for playing that song 5 times a day)

Another Hair Cut

Swinging at the Park. He loved it! Almost fell asleep.

He didn't quite know what to do with his arms.

Tribute to Cabela's!

He leans forward real far then throws himself back against the couch, especially if he is excited.

"Mom my show is back on. Please move." (Hey at least I got a please.)

Snow Storm

2010-01-27T14:55:00.000-08:00

I think this is his 5th or 6th time shoveling off the porch
Don't be fooled...I shoveled too. Right before this picture was taken I jumped over to the tree so I would sink as far as possible and lost my balance and fell backwards. Mom laughed. I threw a snow ball at her and she threatened to throw my camera in the snow. Little brat.

Monday, my parents and I, left the valley to head back up to Show Low and it was raining so we put all of our luggage in garbage bags...well dad did it. Mom and I primped while dad did all the packing :). (He is just so good at it) Tuesday my dad had a two hour delay from school and then the rest of the week he had off. Mom was sick Wednesday and Thursday so we pretty much laid around and didn't get much accomplished. It snowed and rained and rained and snowed and snowed some more all week. Translation....we shoveled and ached and ached and shoveled. What a way to get the heart rate going and to hurt yourself. One day this tree fell down and smashed my parents fence.

4 Months Old

2010-01-27T13:17:00.000-08:00

Well I was in Show Low for the past little while and forgot my camera cord so here is a little update.

Watching TV with a sick Dad

I wish I had a quicker camera to capture his smile.

Playing with Uncle Ryan

Right before his new hair cut in his new bumbo chair

After his hair cut. See the bag of hair on his lap?

The boy definitely has a double chin. Why is it cute on babies?

Cole turned 4 months old. I can't believe it. Oh how he has grown.

Sings all the time now until he sings himself to sleep.

Kicks himself around and around in circles.

Loves to watch TV.

When he's eating and I try to eat or talk, he immediately pulls off to see whats going on. He doesn't want to miss a thing.

Been rolling over since 12/23 and its usually to the left side.

Sucks either his left thumb or his middle finger...or his whole arm.

Has a little blanket that he always loves to have and he puts it right in his face.

Blows bubbles all the time.

Only cries if he's hungry or poopy.

Pees in the tub almost every bath time.

Talks and Talks and Talks.

Sings the Navajo War Dance when being bounced by Grandpa.

Smiles ear to ear when talked to.

Downs a bottle almost as fast as Nana drinks a Dr. Pepper. :)

Had his first hair cut.

Sucks on his toes after he pulls his socks off.

Sleeps through most nights. Terrific I tell ya.

I love this little boy. Truly a blessing and such a wonderful baby.

He Found His Voice

2010-01-11T08:59:00.000-08:00

This is what he does about 80% of the time now! Its our favorite!

Cole is Hilarious

2010-01-07T13:44:00.000-08:00

Last nite Cole was on the couch sucking on his pacifier and I got up to go do something and I came back and he was stuck down in the crack of the couch. His pacifier fell down there and I guess he wanted it back. Cute little guy. Sorry its so long...I'm just an obsessed mother what can I say?

Just Us Again

2010-01-06T11:04:00.000-08:00

He'll sit and chew on his toy all day
An absolute sweet heart

"Whats that over there?"

Cody told Shannon to take me shopping so we went. I didn't think I would find anything but wouldn't you know it...if I have money...it will get spent. I found this new purple coat and cute grey flower! Adorable.

Our Christmas

2010-01-06T09:54:00.000-08:00

We were able to go to Show Low on Christmas Adam (Adam came before Eve) and surprise my mom. We went to the annual Reidhead Christmas Eve party and enjoyed visiting with everyone!

Me and Kalie Marie
Tara, Kari and Rustin always sing for us

Cole and his crazy hair. His shirt says, "Who needs Santa, I've got Grandparents."

Christmas morning we woke up quite early but had to wait for Ryan to show up...which is totally out of character because he's usually the one who wakes us up at 4 o'clock. No one complained about the extra sleep though.

Mom didn't make her famous sticky bread this year. (Famous for being burnt and stinking up the house) Instead we had her famous cinnamon rolls. (Famous for being the most delicious in all of Navajo County)

Cole in his new Christmas sack and me thinking that only my arm is in the picture

Brody being a little sweetie to Cole

Two boys not caring about the camera

Handsome fellas

Christmas dinner complete with Eggnog (gag)

Tubing the day after Christmas. It was quite fun waking up that morning trying to get the beans cooked in the pressure cooker. Swear words, slammed cupboards and NO patience left, we were a happy family once again.

Self portrait

My mom has a porcelain doll that wears this outfit so I put it on Cole. It was perfect.

Just chillin

Cole loves his Uncle Rustin

No Longer MIA

2009-12-22T21:05:00.001-08:00

Wow how time has gotten away from me. I still can not believe it is Christmas time. Cole is growing everyday. I was in the hospital for about a week and away from Cole the whole time because children aren't allowed in the hospital if they're not sick. Boo. When I saw him, I barely recognized him. Mom and Dad definitely gave him enough to eat. He even had cottage cheese legs but now he is used to nursing again.

I'm especially thankful for family right now and all the service they provided while I was checked out. I never had to worry whether or not Cole was being taken care of. Cody and my parents did a fabulous job and also our friends Corri and Nathan Coons. Its good to be home and trying to get back in the swing of things.

my thoughts

2009-12-09T22:14:00.000-08:00

I've had a couple realizations these past couple days. Some good. Some sad. Like for instance, I am a mother. For forever. That will never change. This little boy depends completely on Cody and I for everything. My job isn't a "ok boss I've worked 40 hours. Where's my paycheck? I'm going to enjoy the weekend." Its around the clock job that I love but is definitely challenging. A sad thing I realized was I can no longer buy junior clothing. Which stinks because it is so much cheaper. I went clothes shopping this weekend with my mom and just started crying. I never realized how much a body changes after having a baby. Oh well.

My heart has been aching lately for my cousin Crystal. She lost her baby boy in March. I was 2 months pregnant at the funeral and I thought I knew how she might possibly feel but once Cole was born my life changed and I can never imagine my life without him. I can't imagine how tough losing a child would be and I am so sorry for her aches. What an awful thing to experience and I want her to know she is in my prayers. She is an amazing mother and person. She is a huge example to me about just loving every minute of being a mother even when it gets tough. Thank you Crystal.

I couldn't have asked for a better baby. He is so patient with me and smiles whenever I talk to him or enter the room. Tonight I asked Cody, "do you think he loves me?" Cody said, "there is no doubt in my mind. You and him have the most special bond."

I hope one day my hormones go back to normal so I can go through a day without crying but even through the tears I love Cole. I'm usually crying because I love him so much and its the only way I know how to express it.

...that's my dad

2009-12-07T09:42:00.000-08:00

My parents came down this weekend to do a "little" Christmas shopping. (Bout walked me to death) but it was fun. As with any time my dad is driving, there are several u turns and grumbles under everyone's (mom) breath, we eventually made it to all of our destinations...plus some. My dad got to thinking and broke the silence by saying, "All three of my shows are on at the same time tonight."
"Oh yeah? What shows?"
"Well, the Cardinals game, NFR, and Desperate Housewives."

It took a while for anyone to respond. Then Cody said, "Your a man's man!" It was hilarious! I guess it was just unexpected for such a man to say Desperate Housewives!

He didn't want me to blog it but I couldn't resist.

Cole's 2 Month Check Up

2009-12-02T22:34:00.000-08:00

So maybe I should rename this blog to "Cole's Blog".

At his two month check up he:

Weighed 10 lbs 4 oz ... 28th Percentile

Head 39 cm... 24th Percentile

Height 24 1/4"...91st Percentile

Long and Lean and as cute as can be.

At two months:

smiling like crazy...but not for a camera

follows voices and objects

knows I'm the milk wagon

finds his thumb and naws on it

doesn't really cry...more or less yells

talks the most when I sing to him...melts my heart

snuggles on my chest

sleeps like a champ

pees in his bath water

very patient

knows if I give him his pacifier it must be time to sleep and he'll fight it

can cause anyone to evacuate a room

hates tummy time still but I swear he'll roll over soon

is fascinated by the Christmas tree

loves it when Cody comes home (yay...no more boring mom)

starting to grasp onto things more but mainly just punches still

if he is put on the carpet he gets a little rash on his face (I think that just mainly reflects my housekeeping though)

gets confused as a girl because of all his hair

Cole's Special Day

2009-12-02T14:43:00.000-08:00

We were able to bless Cole on Thanksgiving Day and it was so sweet. Of course, I was totally emotional but it was just a neat experience and it still hits me hard sometimes that he is our son. Cody did an amazing job. Cole was happy as a clam and finally got to meet his Aunt Taralee and smiled right away. (he hears a lot about her) I'm so thankful Cody is his dad and could do that for him! What a blessing!

This is for Shannon

2009-12-02T14:35:00.000-08:00

Shannon thats about as good as it gets. If you need different ones let me know.

For Those Interested...

2009-12-01T19:58:00.000-08:00

Basically this is for Nanna. He usually is so much louder but when the camera is on he gets shy. Little stinker. We just got a "Flip" camera. I love it.

What We're Doing

2009-11-16T20:51:00.001-08:00

I guess it is possible to look like a cow in all pictures!

My two Boys.

He fussed until I stripped him down. Loves to be naked.

Fat and Happy after eating

Chillin up in Show Low while we raked leaves. He loves to be outside. Lookin good mom.

Lookin like his daddy

Well Cole seems to get bigger every day. I attempted letting him fall asleep on his own today. He cried for an hour straight and so did I so I then I told myself, "why put all this pressure on myself when I could just enjoy him?" So thats what I'm doing. Oh well if he doesn't fall asleep on his own yet and wants me to hold him instead. In a little bit he won't want me to so I'm just taking it all in. I love him so much.

My Lil' Human

2009-11-15T13:56:00.000-08:00

I usually call him little human now because he doesn't look like a baby...just a miniature human. He sleeps through the night! How awesome is that!? Up at Show Low was the first time and I have been in heaven ever since.

He is starting to smile and talk a lot and is ticklish up his back on his little toes.

Every day I'm thankful for my little boy. I laugh with him and cry with him and hug and squeeze him every chance I get.

The other day when I was bathing him, the little tub has a place to put his shampoo. Well he peed and it went right into the little hole. That's my boy! He missed the clean dishes so I was pretty proud!

A Mother's Regret

2009-11-12T22:00:00.000-08:00

Darn you dr pepper! I drank you today so i could stay awake while driving home and now my baby won't sleep so i need another one to stay up with him....scratch that idea.

A Mother and Daughter's Weekend Fun

2009-11-08T15:05:00.001-08:00

It's amazing how much me and my mom are alike. Its almost scary...ALMOST.

Like how she can eat a whole thing of double stuff Oreos before I even get a chance to think about having one but I can eat a whole box of Nilla Wafers before she even knew she bought them.

Or how I ate practically a whole pan of pumpkin squares my dad made and blamed it on my mom and he really honestly didn't know who to believe. I guess we both lie a lot...?

Or like when we're both upset we clean really fast and slam things and make as much noise as possible...almost to the point of making it awkward for anyone around...but we feel so much better when we're done.

Or how we can both inhale two Cafe Rio burros no problem.

We both hate sharing Dr. Pepper.

This morning I was wearing my pinkish shower cap and I walked into my mom's bathroom and said, "Look. I look like a cancer patient." For some reason she looked at my chest and I just pointed at my head and said, "Up here." We both about died laughing.

I had to "fix" some of the faces she painted on our navities and I was telling her I can't draw and she said, "I really can't draw. About the only thing I can draw is flies." It took me a while to get it. She was basically admitting that she smells. :D

My dad asked me why painting the faces on the nativity was taking so long and I told him they were screwed up royally. No offense mom. Now Joseph and Mary sure are happy they had baby Jesus. They're smiling ear to ear.

Last time I was here I had an ingrown finger nail on my middle finger. This week I have another one but on the other hand and also the middle finger. And last night I smashed my pinky so I was showing my mom from across the room my battle wound and she said, (with her middle finger up), "yeah my finger hurts too." Then I stuck up both my middle fingers and said, "yeah I have ingrown nails on both fingers." We laughed so hard.

She was giving my dad commands one after another and before we could get the first thing she asked done. I was out in the garage with my dad and said, "doesn't she have a mute button." Dad didn't even hesitate and said, "NO!" I came back inside and she had heard us. Hilarious.

I told her we really should just set up a video tape and record everything we do but she thinks we'll be the only ones that find humor in it. Either way, it would be awesome to go back and watch one day, but I decided to get this all written down before I forget. I love my mom and am so glad I'm like her. She's awesome and so much fun.

Professional Portraits

2009-11-05T22:30:00.001-08:00

This is our little man!